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Can I convince a straight person to become gay?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by gaynerd64, Jan 20, 2014.

  1. gaynerd64

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    I have a crush on a straight guy...
     
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    First question: are you ready to come out? Because there is a near definite chance this will happen if you try
     
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    Not if they are actually straight. Just like you can't change, they can't change. However, I have learned that some people I thought were straight were not.
     
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    If he's straight, you won't get him dude. He likes pussy, you like dick. I assume you can see the difference of likes.
     
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    No; to do so would be morally questionable. I understand that it can be very frustrating at your age to not see or know many other LBGT+ teens who are out in some manner, but as time passes, more people will come to terms with themselves and that pool will grow.
     
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    Yeah, I don't think that's possible. I wish... :frowning2:
     
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    Nope the best thing you can do is hope that he is in the closet.
     
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    As someone is straight and had people tried to convince me that I was actually a closeted lesbian, or at atleast bi, it was very upsetting. I felt like they invalidating who I was, and what was important to me. If this would have happened once or twice, I would have been okay with it, but no, they spent four years trying to convince me that I was at least bi. Trust me that was very pain, especially considering they were "friends" of mine.
     
  9. Wildfyre

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    If you somehow find a way to do that, please share it with the rest of us, because I think most of us have crushed on someone straight sometime...
     
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    You can no more convince a straight person to become gay than anyone can convince you to be straight. :slight_smile:
     
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    ^This
     
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    Agreed.
     
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    I think this topic is deplorable. :/