ex wants me backyet i want to date another person This might be long, I dont know. this guy asked me out end of 7th grade, we broke up 5 months later, got back together two weeks later broke up 4 months later, got back together a month later, I think you get it, there was a pattern with us. well now im intesrested in a girl from school, and she knows it. The guy keeps asking me back out or calling me a minx(fluffy cat) in front of people. I need him to stop but he just isnt taking the no too well. he waits for me after classes, worries when I leavethe classroom when we have classes together, and if he hears I had an asthma attack he freaks out. the girl I like thinks im back with him because he is acting like we are. the other thing Is I have a soft spot for the guy, so im sorta falling for him again, but mom says he will hurt me and she is not usually wrong.
Have you tried making your no more clear? I know it can be hard to do sometimes, but unless you make it crystal clear, a lot of guys are very bad at taking hints.
Hit 'im.. ...is that advice frowned upon? Are you out to him? Let him know know that you are simply not interested anymore.
I know you have a soft spot for the guy, but you might have to hurt his feelings, like being cold towards him for a while until he knocks it off.
I don't really recommend coming out to him unless you want him to tell everybody. Honestly, sometimes in life, you have to be a little mean. I've given the cold shoulder to people who didn't get the "no." It's hard to do at first, but sometimes it's the best to do
