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How to start out

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Justsk8, Feb 7, 2014.

  1. Justsk8

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    I am a femme and very new to 'coming out'. I would love some ideas about how to attract an androgynous lesbian who I have had my eye on.
    It's a difficult situation to explain, however I'll try.
    Though we haven't met, we have held eye contact several times, and I'm pretty sure the first time we made eye contact, that 'omg you're gorgeous' smile flashed across my face. However as I only see her when I am working (and have 25 people in toe) I'm not sure how to hint that I would love for her to hang around for a few minutes so we can chat.
    Any ideas for me would be greatly appreciated!!
     
  2. TJ

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    I don't think there's a way to drop hints that you want to talk besides maybe some hilarious gestures and eye contact.
    Just go talk to her when you can. You shouldn't rely on her to get your 'hints' that you want to talk. She might not get them.

    If you're interested, say hello. Ask her how she is. Be friendly. ^_^
     
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    yep, sometimes subtle hints aren't enough. just say you want to ask her something.
     
  4. Justsk8

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    Thank you both. I'm still so new to this that I question my every move.