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Angry with Mum

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ZenMusic, Feb 12, 2014.

  1. ZenMusic

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    My mum has outed me to my Dad, and now she doesn't even have the decency to apologise for telling him information that I did not give her permission to convey because she sees it as her doing me a favor because I kept pretending. I'm extremely angry with her at the moment, what should I do?
     
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    Well, I guess you should tell her that she betrayed your trust to do that.
    Has you dad had a bad reaction?
     
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    Yes he has, but it's concealed behind the fact that he "cares about me."

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    He's said he is deactivating my Facebook to stop me from being influenced, and he also said to my mum if I am Gay he's done. And the only reason my mun told him is because I kept saying I didn't like pretending, thinking she had my permission.
     
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    Is your mum supportive?
     
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    She says some ignorant things before, and she doesn't understand a lot of things about us, but you could say she, albeit she thinks I'm confused...
     
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    I hope it gets better soon :frowning2:
     
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    Well you could tell her how you feel about her telling. Don't expect an apology, she thought she was helping you, just explain why you're angry.

    Also you could talk about your fears about your dad with her. For example he said he's deactivating your facebook because he thinks you're being "influenced", but you could explain that's not how it works. Just look at all the straight "influence" there is in the world, it's in like 98% of media.
     
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    She finds gays that don't fit the stereotype scary, and she then compared gay people to genuine people?
     
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    What's a genuine person? Like a "normal" person?
     
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    A person you can trust not to stab you in the back, I think she meant