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I had a huge fight with my mom today

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Rosepetal, Feb 15, 2014.

  1. Rosepetal

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    My mom was being bitch today excuse my language but she was all bc my mom sister made an appointment with the driving instructor nd my brother was being an ass . nd i was trying to slap him but i got slap then i cursed at my mom nd when my dad got back she was upset. Then she said why dont we look for a boy who has a degree nd marry her off she`ll divorced. i was and still upset i wanna leave the house but i have no where to go.
     
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    Well maybe you should try apologizing it might of been a heat of the moment thing your mom probably didn't mean it
     
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    are you sure? she was very mad tho
     
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    yes because you parents will always love you even if they don't like you
     
  5. Rosepetal

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    even when there dysfunctional?
     
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    yes as long as they aren't seriously homophobic which it doesn't seem like they are
     
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    Hi there! In the heat of the moment and when people are upset, they say things that they might not mean or would never want to happen in first place. If you are still upset, maybe leave the house for a little bit and try to walk off some of your anger.

    Once you feel you are no longer angry, I'd suggest you could try to apologize for your own actions, words, as finlandwrc suggested. It might go some way in restoring calm, even if your family is dysfunctional.
     
  8. Rosepetal

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    my friends mom is nice nd is nto dysfunctional i just mine wasnt and i can talk to her about my bf.
     
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    Why can't you tell your mom about your boyfriend?

    P.s. I have moved the thread to here.
     
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    bc hes trans nd far away nd she found out once bc she thinks my bf is a lesbian pretending to b a guy bc of an issue
     
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    Sorry to hear this. Do you think that your mom will ever come around and be able to accept your boyfriend is transgender?
     
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    idk really i just hate my parents ignorance
     
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    It is too bad that your parents aren't accepting, and I can see how their ignorance could get to you. As you continue your relationship, and reinforce that you like and want to be with him, they might slowly start coming around (hopefully). (*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*) thank u nd my mom apologized in her own way