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False attraction

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ChromeNerd, Feb 19, 2014.

  1. ChromeNerd

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    I often get this feeling that I might be attracted to someone, but I kind of know that it's not real attraction. I feel anxious and I get a funny feeling down there. Once I even ended up blushing. It's not a pleasant feeling. I often get it with people that I don't want to be attracted to. I once got that feeling with a guy. I got an actual opportunity to kiss him, but I couldn't. That's when I knew it was false attraction. Does anyone else have this problem?
     
  2. AmiBee

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    Sure. I have been physically attracted to guys in the moment. Like if they are paying me a lot of positive attention, but I know that it's not a serious thing. I have not had the desire to be physically or emotionally involved with guys beyond that fleeting feeling. Don't know if that's what you mean by false attraction.