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I am heartbroken.. He claims to not like me back? What now?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by AndyEmpty, Feb 21, 2014.

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  1. AndyEmpty

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    So me and this guy have been friends for awhile now. And I have developed some extremely deep feelings for him. Yesterday I finally told him how I felt and asked him if he felt the same way. This was his response.. Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting I then proceeded to crying myself to sleep. I really thought he liked me.. I really did. He did things like hug me. Kiss my cheek. Hold my hands. Tell me I'm beautiful and amazing. Cuddle with me... He even sent me a nude of himself. I don't know what I did. I feel like it's my fault. I want to cry. I really like him. What should I do now. Should I not text him back or what? Thanks guys. Btw we are both 16 I'm gay and he's bi.
     
    #1 AndyEmpty, Feb 21, 2014
  2. AwesomGaytheist

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    You didn't do anything wrong. That was borderline predatory of him to lead you on like that and then say "Oh, yeah I forgot to mention, I'm not into you."
     
    #2 AwesomGaytheist, Feb 21, 2014
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    back off & move on. sounds like a jerk, sending you pics like that, then telling you he doesn't like you back. you deserve better.
     
    #3 setnyx, Feb 21, 2014
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    I think he like your company especially since you're gay so he can be open with u and do those things with u.
    Maybe for him it was a friendship and thats how he define it, u can ask him about it, just to be sure, and decide for yourself if it suits u or not.

    IMO he didn't mean to offend u, heck, maybe he just wanted to make u happy having a gay friend that can hug and kiss ?
     
    #4 Nikky DoUrden, Feb 21, 2014
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    he is gay he just doesnt want to admit he is to himself or 2 other people move on hes an ass
     
    #5 Rosepetal, Feb 21, 2014
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    He told me himself he would remain "bi" until he was out of high school :frowning2:
     
    #6 AndyEmpty, Feb 21, 2014
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    yes i know i think hes doing that so its easier for him later in life
     
    #7 Rosepetal, Feb 21, 2014
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    :frowning2:
     
    #8 AndyEmpty, Feb 22, 2014
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