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Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by KThomps, Feb 25, 2014.

  1. KThomps

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    So my younger sister has a friend whose mom is lesbian or bisexual or something. I know this because she has had girlfriends over the years. The issue is that I am really attracted to her, and she has been giving me signals by basically taking all walls down and letting me see or hear everything which is weird considering the reason we know each other. Anyways I really like her but she is a lot older than me, what do I do?
     
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    Oh dear. Nothing good can come of this. If you are really attracted to her, wait until you are 18 to tell her about it. Just keep in mind that if she makes a pass at you, she'd be doing something at the least inappropriate and the most illegal. Take care of yourself. Indulge fantasy all you want, but be very careful. I'm with someone 30 years older than me, so I understand that kind of attraction, but we didn't get together until I was an adult--and had we fallen for each other five years earlier, nothing would have happened because it would have been wrong. Hope everything works out ok and that you keep your heart, mind and body safe.
     
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    Oh, thanks. How old are you and your partner?
     
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    Started at 20 and 50, now 25 and 55. Crazy but true. It does work out sometimes!
     
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    If you don't mind me asking are they a boy or a girl?
     
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    Somebody else, please, any advice?
     
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    I'm bumping this thread up--someone else please respond!
     
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    I don't suggest getting involved with her as more than a friend. She is an adult and you are underage. There are many reasons, including legal ones, why a relationship between an adult and a teen won't work out. That said, there is no reason you can't be friends. In fact, she may have a lot to offer you as far as advice about growing up as a lesbian. Just don't cross the sexual boundary.
     
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    I don't suggest getting involved with her as more than a friend. She is an adult and you are underage. There are many reasons, including legal ones, why a relationship between an adult and a teen won't work out. That said, there is no reason you can't be friends. In fact, she may have a lot to offer you as far as advice about growing up as a lesbian. Just don't cross the sexual boundary.
     
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    I know you like her... but really is it worth getting involved in a relationship if it is illegal? where I live, at 16 you can do what you want... but in Denver i'm guessing it's ... 17??
     
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    yea nothing good can come from this bc shes older she can manipulate you bc ur a teenager . i suggest to date other girls in college.