I gave my straight best friend a blowjob. (Slightly erotic text). Advice?

Well, he's clearly not straight! But forget the labels for a minute - you're clearly into each other and you've got something special going on.

Get over the awkwardness & enjoy it.

 

Keep being friends with him, don't try to force the subject, and let things happen.

--Advice from a Jewish Jew

 

This is terrific advice.

At this point, don't over-analyze.

Good luck!

 

As a repressed closet case who has no one to roll in the grass with, I resent this LMFAO

I agree with everybody above. I had a very similar incident happen to me; talking about it and forcing conversations is not the way to go. Just be yourself.

Awkwardness is very contagious, so just try to breath and be as comfortable and cool headed as possible around him, which will be contagious as well. This will help him relax into his feelings for you hopefully. One does not give handy j's behind a shed without there being some inclination outside the straight box.

Wishing you all the best and luck dealing with this- sounds like you guys have a strong connection which is great

 

I think maybe hes just horny?

 

I agree with what everyone else said just don't talk about it and just see what happens between the two of you.

 

I agree with this but also he mentioned that they have a pretty good bromance which is pretty gay if you ask me or maybe he's just way too comfortable with his sexuality being straight but I don't think that's the case.

 

true but maybe hes using the bromance as kickstarter to get laid? alot of str8 maes befriend girls to get laid after.

 

I think you both have something really special . Drunk actions are just real thoughts that your to afraid to act on when sober. I say sober up and get him alone so that you can either talk or see if a kiss is more real without drinking... yes? Good luck:*

 

Well, sex feels good, especially if you do it with a person you like and you're comfortable with. Always remember that a person can be bisexual but exclusively homo-romantic or hetero-romantic. Maybe your friend feels like exploring male-to-male sex, but he's romantically only into girls. Or maybe he's slowly finding out he's bi or gay.

Don't force anything and do not hope he will suddenly turn gay and share his life with you. If it happens, it happens.

 

Great advice here. This was basically the path I took through my entire high school life.

 

So he's told both you and another friend that he thinks he might be bisexual. People don't exactly say that on a whim. He's obviously thought a lot about it.

He's also kissed you and sucked your dick and said he enjoyed it. These are not things a straight guy would do or say. But he's probably also having trouble coming to terms with his sexuality.

What you should do next really depends on what you want out of this. Do you want a more intimate relationship with him? If that's the case, you should probably have a candid conversation with him. Don't confront him about his sexuality, but make it clear that you are confused by his behavior. Don't push him too much, but make it clear where you stand.

On the other hand, if you just want things to go back to normal, I would advise you not to bring up the drunken hookup again. Just be there as a friend to support him. He's probably struggling with some stuff right now.

 

Hahahah.... he aint straight....

Anyway, just kiss him next time you two are alone together... see what happens
It makes me really happy to hear about guys like this who are open to sexual diversity.

Good luck

 

First and foremost, I wholeheartedly thank you for putting a tl;dr section. By doing that, I felt compelled to read the entire thread.

I think the only question that needs to be asked is this. Do you believe alcohol consumption reveals or distorts who we are?

From there, you can know whether these events constitute your friend's bisexuality or heterosexuality. Which would lay a path for you to follow, afterwards.

 

He has told you that he thinks he is bisexual, has feelings for you and has engaged in sexual contact with you. He is definitely not straight and appears to have feelings for you.

'WhiteShadows' message is helpful, you could just kiss him next time your alone together and see what happens. Being drunk causes people to display their true feelings, emotions, views and thought processes that normally they would not convey due to a number of reasons, including shyness and embarrassment. Maybe now you have had the encounter he will not be afraid for more, it is probably easier to ask him.

 

This sort of relationship is completely natural for men. Even though the talk of it was more private, men have been telling each other that they loved each other and having forms of intercoarse since the beginning of mankind itself. It is only recently that this has been made no longer acceptable. There is also evidence of several other animals having homosexual tendencies. Mankind is probably a bisexual species, and we just haven't realized it yet.

 

I wouldn't worry about labels so much as others have said before. There might be some stuff going on with him, and I have no doubts its hard for you right now, but I'd say let him sort it out. I wouldn't push the subject too much if he's that uncomfortable with it. He may be bi or anything else, but right now I'd just be a good friend to him. He might be going through a lot right now, realizing he and his friend just gave each other head, so I'd just be a good friend to him and let him figure himself out.

In my personal opinion regarding his sexuality, I can pretty much guarantee he isn't completely heterosexual, considering he's even admitted he thinks he's bi. Let him figure it out and be as supportive as you can!

Hope this helped! (*hug*)

 

I agree with what everyone else is saying. It seems obvious to me that he has feelings for you, but is too nervous to accept it or to try and initiate things again. Definitely stay friends though! Sometimes you just have to let time do the work for you! Good luck!