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how to react with unresponsive partner

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by calif213, Mar 4, 2014.

  1. calif213

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    I have partner who are not really like to replying text message. what should i do. i have told him that i cannot stand to have no reply from him at least once a day, otherwise i will treat him as a fuck buddy. he is say sorry at that time when i brought this issue. but it seem not change him at all. becuase for me, ignoring other people (not replying text) is impolite.

    is it wrong if i just leave him and find new one, because in my point of view i have tell him about this issue. i am not really like to brought the same issue twice or more than that. we both are grown up, i am 39 and he is 44.
     
  2. MilansMele

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    Welcome to EmptyClosets!

    Normally, most "partners" communicate every day if possible. If he doesn't like to reply to text messages, ask him what form of communication he would prefer-- a phone call? an email?

    If he doesn't want to communicate on a regular basis or he doesn't answer you, I think you need to discuss the future of your partnership together.

    Good luck to you. Let us know how this turns out.

    Milan