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When is the right time to look for a relationship?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Belkeseri18, Mar 5, 2014.

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  1. Belkeseri18

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    I recently came out to myself, which was hard enough in itself. I haven't come out to any family members or friends. I know that eventually I want to be in a dedicated relationship with another guy, but when do I know when I'm ready for that step?
     
    #1 Belkeseri18, Mar 5, 2014
  2. Csp1993

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    It's such a generic answer, but you'll know when you know. There's never going to be a perfect time. It certainly won't slap you in the face and yell, "opportunity!" As long as you are comfortable with people knowing and you feel good about yourself, I say go for it.
     
    #2 Csp1993, Mar 5, 2014
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    You'll never really know when you're ready. You'll know when you fall for someone, and then, ~BAM~ you're in love. I say wait a while and find someone you have a crush on, and then go for it.
     
    #3 KanayaMaryam, Mar 5, 2014
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    you will know when it happens. it's when you least expect it.
     
    #4 Jacob D, Mar 5, 2014
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    Thanks for the advice. I'm new to the community, so I'm just trying to find out as much as I can.
     
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