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Jealousy Advice?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by FelixBluebell, Mar 10, 2014.

  1. FelixBluebell

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    Hi People

    Weird scenario and all that
    I am in a relationship with a guy three years younger than me. We live locally to each other, but over the last 6 months it has been a long distance relationship with him moving away to university. He is not out.

    I trust him, and everytime we talk he makes my world shine. But I cannot shake these feelings of jealousy I get. He is a good looking guy, and people always make comments to him when he is out, and he is very popular naturally.

    I was just wondering if any of you happened to know a way to help me settle my jealousy. I know he wouldnt do anything, which helps a little bit. I was just seeing what advice you people have.

    Thanks :slight_smile:
     
  2. Bran

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    This one is easier said than done. :slight_smile: Just 'don't feed the monster' - when jealousy hits try to think of the good thing that you two have and the happy future you will have with him by your side.