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should i tell her

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by never ready, Mar 15, 2014.

  1. never ready

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    There is this girl that I have a crush on she knows. Well, I'm going to give you the full story. When I first saw her I was attracted to her. So I ended telling my friend and just so happens my friend has a class with her. My idea was to go to their class to get to know her better. I did this about 3x. We got each others name and talked a little. So I stopped going. One day her and my friend was talking she asked where I was. My friend being her tells her at I like her. My friend say she turned red an" what". Told my friend that she didn't like girls. But since then I've caught her looking at me. I want to tell her myself about how I feel and that I don't want her to feel awkward when I'm around. And I was thinking should I do that or not.
     
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    Well, if your friend already spilled the beans, then I think you should talk to her about it and make sure she doesn't feel awkward. She already knows, so the hard part is out of the way. If you think that she's feeling weirded out, then the best thing you can do is talk to her and find out for sure. If she does, try to find out why and fix the problem, if there is one. It's possible she's closeted and is afraid that you found out her secret or something.

    tl;dr: Talk to her.
     
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    Totally agree:slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks I will try and talk to her:icon_bigg
     
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    Yeah, talk to her... Give us updates afterwards... Good Luck! =)