I texted a guy I like, and told him we should do something together some day. He answered: yes! lets go to the movies. So I asked him when, and he said he was busy studying for exams now, but when it was over he would let me know. How long should I wait to text him again? and do you think there might be any interest at all?
He suggested an activity on his own instead of saying something more amorphous, which is good. Ask him on Thursday what he's up to this weekend. If he wants to make plans, that'll be the time to do it. If he says he's busy, you've at least started a conversation about your weekend plans. And if he doesn't respond, it's not like you've poured your heart out since all you did was ask him about his weekend plans. Granted, I'm about the last person who's qualified to give advice on this, but that's my two cents. Hope it helps!
There's not enough info to know if he's interested; friends also go to the movies. However, since he's willing to go, you might just ask him what days are free. Try to find out upcoming movies you're both interested in to make him know you have something concrete in mind (e.g. a new movie or something older that has really good reviews).
i'd probably wait till after exams to bring it up again, just incase it's an excuse. if he knows your bi, i would think he would clarify as not a date if he wasn't interested. good luck.
Is the same guy as before? Either way I guess, probably a good sign. I don't think you need to worry about texting him back to soon. Don't go overboard, but semicharmed had good advice. He seems interested and so he shouldn't be bothered too much if you ask him about the weekend. When studying, people often get sidetracked and forget about things, so probably good to ask him again soon. If he forgets don't take it the wrong way. You could also ask him how is exams are going and hell probably also tell you if hes almost done or not
After the exam I suppose? Check his uni calendar on when semester and finals end. Then make an approximation on when will be a good time to ask him out again =] Good luck bud!
Yes I think Im going to do that, I mean if he really didn´t want to see me why would he suggest going to the movies right??
I texted him again, and he answered and we talked a little. I asked him when his exams ended and he said it wasn´t like a week or two, but like every week he has a very tough exam. I guess he doesn´t want to see me
Dude you need to relax. He is probably studying for his exams....Wait a bit for his exams to finish. I know most people still study all weekends for their exams and don't really go out much. Doesn't seem out of the ordinary to me... Cut the guy a little slack.
I hope you´re right, the thing is he had told me we should go to the movies when his exams finished, and now he tells me they are not really finishing... I hope Im exaggerating :icon_sad: I really really like this guy, I can´t stop thinking about him
