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Distance or what?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by yeahyeah, Mar 19, 2014.

  1. yeahyeah

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    Hello everyone. I writing here because I have some troubles with my boyfriend lately.
    First of all I tell you that he lives in one city and I live in another one (2 hours) and we've been together for 9 months. The thing is that sometimes we discuss/fight about everything and nothing and after some hours or minutes we are fine again (Like bipolar). So we fight but when I get to see him (every two weeks), we are like nothing happened (sometimes we talk about the things that happened).
    I miss him everyday and I would love we both could live in the same city but at the moment we can't. So I want to talk to him without fighting about everything. Do you think these fights is because of the distance and the anxiety to see him everyday and that I can't?
     
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    Hard to say. What do you fight about?
     
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    Jealousy, voice tone, sad feelings, me being childish, we don't here sometimes very well at the phone.
     
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    I think you two need to spend a period of time together and see how you behave when cooped up together for a couple of weeks at least.