Hello everyone. I writing here because I have some troubles with my boyfriend lately. First of all I tell you that he lives in one city and I live in another one (2 hours) and we've been together for 9 months. The thing is that sometimes we discuss/fight about everything and nothing and after some hours or minutes we are fine again (Like bipolar). So we fight but when I get to see him (every two weeks), we are like nothing happened (sometimes we talk about the things that happened). I miss him everyday and I would love we both could live in the same city but at the moment we can't. So I want to talk to him without fighting about everything. Do you think these fights is because of the distance and the anxiety to see him everyday and that I can't?
Jealousy, voice tone, sad feelings, me being childish, we don't here sometimes very well at the phone.
I think you two need to spend a period of time together and see how you behave when cooped up together for a couple of weeks at least.