So I've had a mate that I've always sort of picked as Bi, always thought he was good looking but was never that interested. Lately I sort of started crushing on him a bit, just wanting to spend more time together and wanting to be with him. The other night we were all talking and I found out for sure that he is at least bi-curious. Since then I can't really stop thinking about him. I need some advice on how I can sort of see if he's interested and stuff without wrecking a friendship. Thanks
Get to know him more. What is important to him in a person that he likes? Continue growing as friends and he will most likely start having feelings for you. If he is bi-curious, then that puts a lot of strain off finding if he likes you. Goodluck!
Yeah thanks, been spending a lot more time together lately. He knows I'm at least bi now. Had a BBQ last night and cooked together so hopefully works out well.
Try to do something alone with him, maybe an activity that he really likes. That way, you two can talk one-on-one, making him more comfortable to discuss personal stuff.
