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Massive Crush - but idea what to do?!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Carebear11, Mar 31, 2014.

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  1. Carebear11

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    Hi Everyone!

    So, I have been on here before, questioning my sexuality and what not. I know now that I am not 100% straight, but don't really have a label. Anyways... I have met this girl who plays soccer with me. At first there was definitely something that I like about her... and since I have got to know her better I have developed a MAJOR crush on her.

    It's weird because I have never felt like this for a guy. It's the whole butterflies in my stomach thing when I think about or see her thing. I day dream about her... she is the last thing I think about before I go to sleep and the first thing when I wake up. It's crazy. I feel kinda dumb.

    Anyways I have spoken to her via text and plucked up the courage to start a convo this past weekend and it was good, but we havent texted since. I find myself wishing she would just text me. And when I saw her at practice today, I felt so shy and didnt know what to say!! AHHHH I feel so stupid!!
    Also she thinks I am 100% straight because I have spoken to the girls about my ex's and what not.

    Worst part is... I dont even know if she will like me back. (ps. she told me she only goes for straight girls)

    Please please... I need advice on what to do!? I have to force myself not to think of her and it really sucks. You are all so helpful and I appreciate you taking the time to read this.

    Thanks x
     
    #1 Carebear11, Mar 31, 2014
  2. lovely lesbian

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    So she's gay then? Or bi?
     
    #2 lovely lesbian, Mar 31, 2014
  3. Carebear11

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    She is gay! Sorry... Im so flustered I forgot to mention that :bang:
     
    #3 Carebear11, Mar 31, 2014
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    If you've presented yourself as a straight girl and she told you she only goes for straight girls; you should text her now to meet up.
     
    #4 thrnvlpidj, Mar 31, 2014
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    I know but I am terrified of being rejected... :frowning2: I think I would be crushed if she said she wasnt into me
     
    #5 Carebear11, Mar 31, 2014
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    That's something you'll have to be able to handle if you're going to pursue her (or any other potential crushes in the future).

    I find it interesting that she's gay but she ''only goes for straight girls''... makes it sound like she's a masochist or something. If I can help it, I will never go for something I have no chance with.
     
    #6 polaroid, Mar 31, 2014
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    I wondered if the "I only go for straight girls" was flirting.

    If you're rejected, you'll soon forget about it. If you never ask, you'll forever wonder what might have happened.
     
    #7 thrnvlpidj, Apr 1, 2014
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