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Weight problems?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Poisonxxivy9550, Apr 5, 2014.

  1. Poisonxxivy9550

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    I am casually dating this girl and her mind is absolutely brilliant. She insprires me and I love the sex we have. However, she is a bigger girl and I have never been with a big girl. I'm pretty small myself. Looking at pics on fb, it seems she gained probably 40 pounds in the last year. I really find myself more sexually attracted to her pictures of when she was smaller. She isn't my type physically now. What should I do? Do I even bring it up? Like I said, I love her mind but her body really isn't in great shape now. But she was absolutely adorable before. I'm torn.
     
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    Well u can think of exercises for you two to do together? Flirt her little and push gently. That should help it probably? If she aint lazy like me. But yeah i just need someone to boss me around maybe she does too ^^
     
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    I used to be quite a big girl myself. I found a love for running. If someone had said something to me when I was bigger I wouldn't have taken it well. Perhaps try to find something that you both would enjoy like cycling? Something that is a good form of exercise but enjoyable. :slight_smile: just be careful how you approach it. If my wife told me she didn't find me as attractive because I'd put a bit of weight on it would make me feel really insecure.
    You could say that you want to get trim, eat well etc and you could use the support?
     
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    my advice would be to do physical activitys together like walking and be respectful of her/do not say anything to hurt her feelings .
     
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    Pretty much what the person above me said. Try to find something you both enjoy that includes exercising. Say the two of you enjoy going for a walk, try asking her one night if she wants to go for a walk when she's bored.
     
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    Yes to the suggestions that you exercise together, and plus, an extra 40 pounds added on within a year is not healthy. I'd be honestly concerned for her well-being, has she seemed more down than before? Is she under a lot of stress? It doesn't have to be approached just as a matter of how attractive you find her, which could come off as selfish.