Although not LGBT related, who better to ask for advice?? So my best friend since I've know since I was five moved away when I was 8 because her divorced mother was getting remarried. We continued to be extremely close. She wpuld always visit and go on trips together. She moved back when we were 14 and her mother and stepfather bought a huge new house to we spent the night at her house almost every night because we were so excited to be going to the same school again. This is were things started to get a little weird..... Her stepdad refered to himself as a musician (not in the loosest useof theword). Whilemy friendwasin theshower, he asked to help set up his room in the basement, his "recording studio". I agreed not thinking anything weird about it. Little did I know, he wanted me to help sound proof the room. When I walked in thedoor,helocked ot behind me and started showing me all of his guitars and equipment, not what I went in there for. I kept asking if I could go and he finally let me leave when my friend was looking for me. From there after, everytome he saw me he couldnt stop hugging me or playing with my hair. That isn't all. We were hanging out in her basement and her stepfather came downstairs and was begging me to see his recording studio because he had something special for me. My friend was all "okay lets go" and since she was going, I wasn't worried. I walked in as he turned on his equipment and he picked up his guitar and started singing into a microphone. Terribly, he sang a song called [insert my name here] . It said how beautiful this girl is and how he just wants to be with her. He later explained he had written it himself. I immediately asked to go home. Despite my protest, he drove me home. He played the song "Closer" by Nine Inch Nails. Before playing it he said, "This one is for you [insert my namehere]"LOOK UPTHELYRICS PEOPLE. PLEASE, IF YOU HAVEN'T HEARD THEM. I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. I started not going over to her house, but as rare as I did go, he would always be naked or in his underwear.I don'tknow whether I should tell my friend or what's going on. What to do, what to do....
Is there someone you can talk to about this? From what you have described, it's not right for him to be doing those things.
If I were you, I would do my best to avoid being alone with him. As close as you and your friend are though, there will likely be situations in which you cross paths with him. Though it may be difficult to do, I would try to talk to your friend about it. She is eventually going to start wondering why you have stopped coming over so much. I would just tell her that he makes you uncomfortable. If you feel like you can't talk to her about it, it might be helpful to find someone else to confide in.
