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I just don't understand my friend at all...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ALilConfused, Apr 17, 2014.

  1. ALilConfused

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    There are times when he'll get really touchy with me and say flirty things (gives me pet names, calls me sexy, say how nice I look, slaps my ass, etc.). I guess I might not be the best at reacting at these instances, but I'd say it's fairly obvious my response to them is positive.

    However, there are times where he'll constantly talk about some girl he's trying to have sex with, make a ton of comments about how a girl on TV is hot, etc.

    I don't understand. Is he trying to hint at something or is he just a straight guy acting weird? :confused:
     
  2. WhiteShadows

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    It's hard to tell :/
    I'd say you should keep pushing the touchy-flirty things. See how he responds.
    Also, maybe bring up an LGBT topic subtly and see how he responds to that.

    Good luck! :slight_smile:
     
  3. LostAndAffraid

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    Yeah I agree with shadow, either flirt back for serious or bring up something that's super gay and see how he feels about it.