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will I be happy more with males or females?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Shineye, Apr 22, 2014.

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Do you think males or females are right for me for a relationship?

  1. Males, definitely

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  2. Woman, they will make you happier

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    0.0%
  1. Shineye

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    owww easyy, you have time to tink it over and find out if you're 15
    you should be the one to decide who you choose not a pole,, so I'm not going to vote in it

    maybe you would prefer someone in between with male and female traits ...

    sad to hear about your family not accepting this part of you
     
  2. Thatoneguy

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    Also Refuse to vote in a poll that 'determines' the rest of your life.

    Its up to you to come to this realization on your own. Its a personal journey that everyone must undertake. But keep in mind its completely okay to be attracted to both equally.

    I understand how you feel, I delayed my coming out because I thought eventually my hormones will settle down and I will only be attracted to men or women. But that was 10 years ago and it still hasn't changed.
     
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    My advice: stop worrying too much about it. :slight_smile:
    Just carry on, don't let it sit in your mind and affect your life too much.

    Later down the road, if you fall in love with a girl, then you fall in love with a girl. And if you fall in love with a boy, then you fall in love with a boy. Let it be what it is.

    :slight_smile:
     
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    lol, I was also going to say there needs to be another option. A relationship is a very personal decision, so it would be wrong to say "Sorry your a guy[girl], and I can only date girls[guys]."

    Also, it would be very bad if you tried to have a heterosexual relationship and act like you're straight. That would be denying an important part of what makes you you.

    Don't worry about marriage now. You're only 15!
     
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    Do you fear getting married, having kids, realizing you're straight and having to divorce your husband?
     
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    I'm not going to vote for I feel it's up to you. You are still a young man with a most of your life ahead of you. If I was to guess I would guess bisexual but it's only a guess. If you need someone to talk to message me :-D