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Getting over a straight crush

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ETCA, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. ETCA

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    Nothing real urgent, I'm just curious. How do you guys get over a straight crush? I've had two real big ones, and keeping my distance until the feelings went away worked pretty well for me. Any tips for the future?(!)
     
  2. hopelesslover93

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    I used to have one. I loved him throughout the high school, it didn't work. There's this current straight (?) guy who I try to forget by keeping distance, firting with other people, and deleting social media contact with him. Love sucks, when not returned.. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I've handled it the same way you did - keep your distance.
    If you don't see them, you'll forget about them.

    I've also had luck by just deeply acknowledging the fact that I won't be able to date them since they're straight, and that's worked.
     
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    Actually I'm just getting over one by finding a new person (not really a crush yet, just a little curious I think). Problem is I'm not sure if this girl is straight too, hahaha. It's kinda the same as getting over anyone.