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What does he want??

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by hopelesslover93, Apr 28, 2014.

  1. hopelesslover93

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    Hi! There's this guy I posted about earlier in this forum that had a girlfriend but slightly flirted with me and looked pretty disinterested in his gf (no photos on web, shares nothing about her, only meets once a week) so I assumed he was in closet and kept it going I must admit he seemed to like it. But then one day he suddenly had a check in with his gf on social media (I found out about girl by stalking her on web,i'm sorry :frowning2: ),so I was devastated and just backed up and ignored him for 2-3 days to move on. But then he stopped coming to school, ceased his social media activity and never had a check in since then. I assume I make lots of check in's with multiple girls on web, I wondered if he got jealous and tried to make me jealous either? Well,if then it kinda killed me inside, but I don't really know what to do now, I need to do something with my life:go on or start everything again?

    Thanks!!!
     
  2. TJ

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    I think you're reading way too much into his actions.

    Him not posting about his significant other on social media in no way indicates him not being interested. I don't post anything about my boyfriend and I, but I'm very involved with him.

    Move on from him. Stop creeping on him (it's not a bad thing, btw).
    Just move on to better guys. He has a girlfriend. You should assume he's straight unless he directly says otherwise, because getting in the middle of a relationship is never a good thing.
     
  3. hopelesslover93

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    Ha ha, you again! Thanks a lot, I was getting over anyway. I just got confused last week. Thanks anyway..