Disclaimer: MY dad does accept me as a person. He loves me a person. I recently had a talk with my dad. Well, he talked to me. Well, it was about being a lesbian. And who to tell. I made it clear I wasn't going to tell my grandma on my dad's side. I am not going to flaunt my sexuality to the church. Since my church isn't LGBT safe. And my dad doesn't support me being gay either. He still believes its a choice, and that I made a choice to be gay. And emotional choice. I know that the fact is it isn't. But I won't convince him. Also, I do have a rainbow band I wear and a double venus charm. I keep it tucked into my shirt when I am at home. He wants me to take it off when I am out and about, and I really want to wear it. I do agree I will put away the rainbow band when I am home, but when I am out and about (not at church) I want to wear it. I do get talked to a lot about my sexuality. I made it clear to him I tried being heterosexual, but it didn't work. At all. And yes, I am a Christ follower like he is, I just accept the fact God made me gay. How do I deal with this? How do I deal with a non accepting home? a non accepting church? Non accepting Christians? Just how? I appreciate all help.
