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So confused!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Ohhai, May 5, 2014.

  1. Ohhai

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    Hi guys! So I've not been on here for ages, hope you're all okay :slight_smile:

    I'm a gay woman, and have known that for a long time. I'm attracted to women, and like to date them, etc.

    I'm now falling for my male friend :S I'm so confused! What does this mean?! I don;t think I'm bi, and I'm certainly not straight... This is so weird for me, and I really want to be with this guy :/
     
  2. Story Jinx

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    Could you simply homo-flexible?
    Exceptions happen :slight_smile:
     
  3. Ohhai

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    Hmmm homo-flexible, I like that :grin:
     
  4. Holdingb

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    There is the Kinsey scale which you may see in a lot of people's orientation status thing-a-ma-jig, which pretty much indicates "how gay you are" to simplify it a dramatic amount. If this is strange for you it may mean you are Kinsey 5, or Kinsey 6 which means you are mostly homosexual with a few exceptions, which seems to be the case! :grin: A label shouldn't define who you are, just remember that!
     
  5. Envira

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    i know you probably want to call yourself something, but I wouldn't worry about it. you're just a lesbian who really likes a guy. maybe you're just you.
     
  6. BIazn07

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    don't worry about it Hun. just follow your heart and I bet your heart doesn't care about labels. but if you really are wondering, maybe you aren't as gay as you think you are. still so much to experience out there