I have a really good friend who I love and feel lost without really. And I'm pretty sure he likes me too but another friend has a crush on me(so I've heard) but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Any advice on what to do? :help:
Do you want to ask your really good friend out? If so, are you sure he's gay? Are you good friends with the friend who is rumored to have a crush on you, or are you just acquaintances? I suggest that you just be friends with both of them. Get to know them for a while, build a friendship with them, and if they turn out to be gay and want a relationship, you can decide about dating at that time. It just doesn't seem like you know very concretely whether they're gay, so I don't think it'd be wise to pursue a relationship with them before you know that. Also, might I add - You don't need to be in a relationship with someone to be close with them. You can be plenty close with your really good friend without pursuing a relationship. In fact, it'd most likely go smoother than pursuing a relationship if you're really concerned with being close to him.
