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aSKING A GIRL OUT?!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by w1e2e9s5a9L6ou, May 8, 2014.

  1. w1e2e9s5a9L6ou

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    Okay so there is this REALLY cute girl I've had a crush on for a year or so and we exchanged numbers like two weeks ago and I haven't texted/called her yet.. I don't know if she's lesbian/bi or straight, but anyway... I was going to go for ice cream and was debating asking her to come for a walk and get ice cream with me.. This itself is very nerve-wracking and I get socially awkward :frowning2: Advice?
     
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    Does she know you're gay? Maybe bring up something gay related, see how she reacts, and if she's bi/lesbian. Then take it from there :slight_smile:
     
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    I think she knows I'm gay, we have this flirty thing going on once and a while, but I don't know.. I should probably try your suggestion! Thank you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Honestly, take a chance, if she rejects you it's not the end of the world. I'd say be bold and brave you have nothing to lose. :wink:
     
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    yeah invite her for ice cream. It's not necessarily a "date". I hang out with my friends for ice cream/food/things all the time. That way, you will get to know her, and have a chance to see where she stands on LGBT issues.
     
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    That's better advice than mine. Usually people are inclined to interact when there's no pressure.
     
  7. lovely lesbian

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    Yea i agree ask her out see what happens