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First Time Anal HELP!!!!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Eskimoboy, May 12, 2014.

  1. Eskimoboy

    Eskimoboy Guest

    Hi everyone :slight_smile:
    I'm 20 and just recently started identifying as bi, and have received a lot of support but also a lot of attention. A big source of that was on ******, and I met this guy I like and we have been talking a lot (over the past few weeks) via text, and have met in person. He is really awesome and things are looking to get more intimate. One thing that I CANNOT get off of my mind is all of the tales of anal sex and how it hurts. I definitely think that I am a bottom and the thought of that turns me on/gets me excited, but am scared about the pain. I don't believe that he is overly "big", but even so the prospect both terrifies me and gets me super psyched! I don't really know what to do lol. Does anyone have any advice for me?! Past stories welcome of course. Anything to help put my mind at ease. FYI I don't mind a little bit of pain (my tolerance is rather high). Thanks!! :icon_bigg

    ---------- Post added 12th May 2014 at 01:31 PM ----------

    all of those asterisks should be a dating app for the iPhone, not sure why it censored
     
  2. Trentacles

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    prob censored because it's a dodgy app. And yeah, anal hurts a lot at first if you don't go slow.