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I think my mom just caused a fight between me and uncle >.<

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by stocking, May 21, 2014.

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    Well my uncle drives the local bus in our town and last winter my uncle offered me rides close to my home , the problem was during the winter the people never cleaned the snow that fell there so it was hard to walk plus the cars hardly slowed down and it was dangerous at night . So I told my uncle that I preferred walking on the other side my uncle got upset but let me do what I wanted I told my dad about it my dad told my mom and now a few months later my mom calls my uncle brings the whole thing up again tells him " Oh she told me how you were being mean to her and I shouldn't treat her this badly and I hope you won't be mean to her " Now the phone was on speaker I was able to hear what he said and now I'm thinking I know she had good intent but why does she always fuck up my relationship with people . It's like she tries to help but makes everything worse now my uncle is gonna hate me or be angry bring it up with me when I don't care to talk about it and i'm over it . :tantrum:
    Yeah i'm ranting
     
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    Have you tried telling your mom he did it because you wanted him to, and that he was even reluctant to the idea?
     
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    yeah I did but it's when I refused he got mad and I told my dad and he told her .
     
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    That sucks ): It seems like your mom is just hardheaded
     
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    Yeah she should of just left well enough alone :dry:
    and my uncle and I were getting alone now he's gonna get mad at me
     
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    my uncle and I were getting alone now he's gonna get mad at me

    Is he? Do you actually have a reason to think he will be mad? Keeping in mind that all you would need to say to your uncle is "Why would I tell her that, the whole thing was MY idea in the first place"
     
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    Yeah I probably would I'm not sure if he's mad or not be he sounded upset on the phone
     
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    perhaps he was ticked at your mom?
     
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    Yeah I didn't think of that :confused: