We have hooked up before, but how to make a move?

Hi. So i am a feminine lipstick lesbian, in college. This girl came into my life about 5 months ago. We are both girly. We vibed right away, and a few weeks later we had a 3sum with a guy. It definitely confirmed the vibe i had been feeling about her. (meaning she definitely was somewhat attracted 2 me, and this was more than a friendship bonding). When the guy left the room, she charged on me and we hooked up just us for about 5-10 min while he was in the bathroom. it was amazing <3. Lol well so yeah from there on out we have been making out almost every night that we go out and drink together. The thing i really like about her though is we can talk about the stuff we do , the day after while we are sober. She doesnt know im a lesbian, but she definitely knows im not straight, and i feel the same way about her. The only problem is though it seems we need to Kind of "use boys" to justify us hooking up. and i totally understand because there isnt as much pressure if guys are watching. But its clear we are both very much into eachother, even when guys are present, or we have 3sums, the intensity of our makeouts is nothing like when either of us will kiss the guys. And the guys were trying to hookup with us but we just couldnt stop making out she kept coming on me. and 1 of the guys was like " damn thats hot but like...are u guys lesbian lesbians lol?"... We text all the time, she calls me many times throughout the day. ( speaking of i just got a text from her..lol). ANd we late night text alot, being flirty and saying goodnite to eachother. She's said to me " can i have a hug and a kiss?" lol!....and of course we have many names for eachother ( affectionate spanish names )... She gets jealous when i will even hug other ppl, wtf? but yet she can do the same so that bothers me and she still hooks up with guys, which is totally fine but then why does she get jealous if i go with other ppl?. Neither of us really know what eachother's sexuality is , which i am fine with lol. Oh yeah and she is Latina, if that helps. You know that whole machisimo culture. She definitely has some insecurity issues.

Soooo my question is, how do i make a move when it is just us? This is definitely beyond a friendship, but i am just too scared to flat out make a move on her, when we are hanging out 1 on 1. Except one time we came back to her place super drunk and she started serenading me to a spanish song, and brushing her hand upon my face and my body..it was heaven lol. And she pulled my face into hers and we were literally ABOUT TO KISS...but i think we both got scared lol UGH.
We do hangout 1 on 1, but im a feminine lesbian and im too scared to make a 1st move, and i know shes scared too...and neither of us really know what eachother's sexuality is, which makes this interesting lol... But i always have this worry in the back of my head like what if a make a move and she is creeped out or rejects it? (since it would be 1 on 1 and more pressure, u know??) I also like dont want her to think im weird or something... wen we r hanging out 1 on 1 and get a lil drunk she will start being like "damn..you grab that beer..sexy..chica...sexychica..."
She has texted me " Rawrr...lets have a 3sum tonight" and the thing thats funny is neither of us care who the guy is, its so clear that we just have to use it so that it allows us 2 to hook up....lol sooooo what is your advice on how to go about getting us to hook up 1 on 1?...I definitely do feel more of the "aggressive" one in this relationship so i feel i should make the move but like...idk. She makes so many suggestive comments and im just like, is she trying to tell me to make a move!!?!?!...or is she just making suggestive comments because she feels like it?...Like one time at the gym we were playing basketball and it hurt her arm and she had a mark and im like " r u ok?" and she goes " Nooo it hurts... Can u carress it later??" ... That never happened lol but like idk what to think about these comments??... when we do hangout there are always suggestive comments made by her and me,but im way too scared to just be like "sooo wanna come sit closer to me?" or something lol....advice please on how to go about this... we have 4 weeks left on campus till we go home for the summer and i really want this to happen 1 on 1! lol

thanks!

 

Thanks for the advice!.... I mean im not trying to pressure her or anything...like i dont think either of us want to date anyone right now...we are just living up our young lives haha... i love our "friendship/relationship" whatever it is that we have lol. And she seems not like the type that would be creeped out or anything, but idk i just have this fear in my mind like what if it ruins our "friendship"... i really dont see that happening due to the fact we have already madeout numerous times, and we have already had sex lol.

We will defenintely be drinking alcohol...she comes over 1 on 1 plenty of times...How do u think i should go about making a move?

 

@HeavyHeart Lol but like when the guy was there for the 3sum...he like started it. i just am way too scared to be like " lets go to my bedroom" or something lol... Idk i was thinking maybe when we smoke hookah i can be like "wanna shotgun it?" (thats where you blow the smoke into the other person's mouth).... Idk im just so nervous. But then it bothers me because what if she wants it to happen too but she is too nervous also...Idk!

 

Wooo! welllll so the past 2 nights she has been at my place drinking till about 1AM, then we go walk around campus...and we have been smoking hookah and i made a move to blow the smoke into her mouth and then she did it back to me...then we madeout about 4-5 times each night!...then we went to a bar tonight and after we left the bar we were walking in a grassy field and she grabbed me and we madeout again! .... sooo yay!.... so the makeouts have been going pretty well...but i dont know how to try to do more with her... lol. i feel accomplished because now i dont feel too nervous making a makeout move on her when we r drunk enough and it is just us...but trying to do anything else idk if i have that courage lol... hmmm advice?