So, around a week ago, I came out to one of my good friends. I trust him and it was a great relief. What was even better is that he came out to me as bi too Its good to have someone I can openly talk about my sexuality to. However, I just don't know how to interpret his flirting! I talk to him in school and on facebook a lot, and he gets really suggestive with what he says on facebook especially. For example, we were talking about gay porn (our conversations do change rapidly!) and he said 'you know you want to do a video with me haha '. He calls me 'kinky (my name)' I'm not sure why lol, and he says 'ooo I like it though '. He is always using winky faces and he complimented my 'features' yesterday . He is having a hotel party for his 16th and when I said 'sit yo ass down bish ^.^' he said '..I get to dare you anything hehe '. He has said I should do a documentary on my sex life then said 'do it before family guy so I am happy when it starts '. There are many more examples, these are just a couple. Our conversations on FB basically consist of winky faces, suggestive puns etc. He is also dying to know who I like, saying 'I NEED to know, I'm desperate :3'. That is pretty suggestive in my eyes- why would he 'NEED' to know? He also won't tell me who he likes And you might think 'thats just how he is, a flirty person', but he's actually quite a shy and introverted person, and not flirty by nature. However, he does have a girlfriend. But- they are never around each other. They barely see each other properly, never go out together and show no affection at all. Even mutual friends agree they're not like a proper couple. They have contemplated splitting up many times but they never do. People agree that they only stay together for the sake of it :/ Not sure what to think tbh :help:
Well, he's obviously interested in you. Maybe you should ask a little about his girlfriend. Like, what exactly their relationship is. I personally think it would be wrong for either of you to try and make a move while she's still in the picture. When she's out, then the next decision's up to you.
Thanks for that WearyWanderer I sometimes bring it up but the conversations end up a little awkward sometimes :S Yes I wouldn't make a move if she was still in the picture, not ethical.
Haha, that would be a brilliant reply XD He really wants to know if I like anyone, so you've now given me my response!
