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Help with a hook up

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by NewGirl24, May 30, 2014.

  1. NewGirl24

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    This boy has been in my french class for 4 years and, oh boy, you should hear him speak french. It's about the sexiest thing ever. We have always been friends and sometimes he tells me he loves me really randomly and I know it's just a friendly thing because he does it to another person I know and it isn't a secret or anything I don't really care.
    He is absolutely amazing at french, is completely fluent and soaks up the language like a sponge. It's really amazing. He's also funny and nice and good looking. Not too long ago, he said to me "[insertnamehere] you look really beautiful." I responded with"I'm weating sweatpants" "so?" "My hairs falling out out of a bun" "[insertnamehere] none of that matters"
    This was weird because he's never said anything like that to anyone else that I know of. We had a huge test coming up and I genuinely needed help so who better to ask? He came over after school one day and we started kissing. He pulled my body against his and it was getting pretty physical. We went to my room and he started touching me everywhere and we were grinding up against each other. We ended up fucking. It was amazing and he even said a few choice french words it was so much better than I could have expected. It was also my very first time. He made me feel so special and since then we have been texting and I got an A on that test. He doesn't know that I'm bisexual and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Does it even matter if I do? It's a straight relationship so now I don't feel the need to tell anyone. It was also very spur of the moment so we didn't use protection and I'm not too worried, but I am a little concerned. I'm only 16, so what precautions should I take? Thanks!!!
     
  2. Peacemaker

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    you could tell him if you still feel attracted to both sexes and it could be a good way to open up to him, and um having relationship with a bisexual does not make you automatically straight, in case you were thinking that, and finally, lol you could have you condoms, spermicide and the morning-after pill, im pretty sure you can visit a local health clinic and get the condoms for free, along with panphelts about safe sex (just in case, you might want to do it again) plus i think they give you a free pregnancy test (not too sure on that, might need to double check) but i think only adults can get the morning-after pill, so no luck there, ok besides all this congrats (your first time, atleast it was passionate) but minght want to be more careful in the future.

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