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Heartbroken, devastated, anxious.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ChristopherAdam, Jun 2, 2014.

  1. ChristopherAdam

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    Title sums it up.

    I'm not sure what to do about my family anymore. It seems I can't go a full 24 hours without having to hear a homophobic or transphobic remark.

    I'm not out, but I have began dressing part time as male. :eusa_doh: Sorry, that's right.... allow me to introduce myself, I am a transsexual male. Anyway, my beginning to present as male has lead to me getting quite a bit of nasty remarks hurled at me personally as well.

    I feel suffocated in my own home. It's really began to completely crush my spirit. I feel like my sanity is hanging by a thread.

    Is there anything I really can do?

    :help:
     
  2. Peacemaker

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    You could try explaining what a transsexual is?
     
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    Ignore them and celebrate life go out and treat urself something nice :slight_smile: save up to move out nd life ur own life.
     
  4. ChristopherAdam

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    They're plenty aware! It's honestly just bullying. Low-blows. And they seem to know /exactly/ where to hit.
     
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    Um standing up to them, sorry if that sounds crappy not really on the high i usually get from being up at night
     
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    oh, what??? :confused:
     
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    You should try talking to your friends and people outside your family. Does your school have a GSA club?
     
  10. ChristopherAdam

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    Thing is - I haven't lived here long, and I don't actually know anyone. I do online college.