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URGENT I am telling my folks tonight about my girlfriend

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by GayNurse95, Jun 6, 2014.

  1. GayNurse95

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    As you all know, I recently fell in love with a lovely lady online. We have seen each other on camera, talked though voice chat and IM'd for six months. Then, love happened. We have perfect chemistry, we are pretty much the same person, but with different hair colors.
    Okay, heres the thing. I am a bit nervous to tell my dad about her. but I feel compelled to.
    All advice is appreciated.
     
  2. AudreyB

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    Just in fleeting, be as confidemyt as you can about it. Showing shame wull only guve them the feeling they can manipulate you abiout it. Stay strong
     
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    I wish you well. If you are both consensual adults, then I say go for it. :slight_smile:
     
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    I agree about being confident. It seems like you're out to your parents, so it shouldn't be a big surprise you found someone. As long as they aren't disapproving solely because you're lesbian, then it should be okay.
     
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    Love is so hard to find, like others have said be confident be brave, whatever happens follow your heart, everything else doesn't matter.