Hello guys. So I have this boyfriend, and both of us are still in the closet except for a few friends. I became one very good friends with one of his pals. Thisfriend became my confidante for my relationship woes, but he doesn't know that his buddy is actually my bf. I really wanna tell him, because that will be better since he knows my guy too, but im not sure if he's out to him. What should I do? Please help.
Ask your boyfriend if this friend knows. Really no need to go into anything deeper than a curiosity if you're worried about your bf knowing about your venting to this friend.
Keep in mind that if he knows, it might be harder for him to keep your confidence knowing information about both of you... Supriwed he hasn't asked who your bf is...