I'm struggling a lot not to check up on my ex boyfriend. We broke up last week and we lived together. We decided that I would keep our apartment, but he took it as he had to be out of here completely. He tried to move back to his parents for a while but they refused to let him stay (not sure why, I wish I knew but I don't want to push the issue). So basically, right now he's homeless. He has some friends he could stay with but he refused to stay at his sisters (who has a spare room with a bed). I'm hoping that he's staying with his friend, but I have no idea. For all I know, he's sleeping in his car. I'm really really nervous about him and I want to check up on him but I have no idea how to go about that. Should I just try to forget about it? That's what everyone else tells me, but I would be so hurt if anything ever happened to him. I want to text him, but I know he'll probably take it the wrong way.
You're concerned for the welfare of another person...even though you broke up you still care about him, because you're a normal functioning human being... If you texted him, how would he take it the wrong way?
i think you should, its not like the breakup was a horrible one besides, you care about him there is nothing bad about that, it does not seem like a bad idea to try and get in comtact with him either
