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Needing a father figure

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Fennec, Jun 11, 2014.

  1. Fennec

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    Just...a little thing to get this off my chest somewhere.

    I'm comfortable telling people I care for about my gender issues (being a man on the inside and a female on the outside) and I myself am okay with it. But my father, who is not accepting of anything in lgbt culture, has seen me as a daughter and my 'mother's problem'. I've never had a father figure who would treat me as a son. It worries me a little that I'll never really have that because of my sexuality. (I like boys and am a boy...which means everyone really sees me as a straight girl and never questions it.)

    I want to be able to have my father go outside with me and play ball and sit there comparing sports teams (I'll not be able to follow, but the offer would be nice) and treat me like one of the guys.