Hi there! :smilewave I guess I need some advice.. So, I've been dating this girl for about 7 months now and everything's always been fine, but a few weeks ago, this guy from our school writes me on facebook and finally asks me to go eat some ice cream with him. I agreed immediately and didn't think of it as a date, but the problem was that he didn't know I had a gf and everyone tells me that he has a crush on me. Of course, my gf is kinda jealous too.. By now, he knows I'm in a relationship and he said he just wants to be friends. But now, I start to think about him and sometimes even fantasize... Now the even bigger problem is that I've never slept with a men, only with my gf, but I've always wanted to know what it's like.. But if I do, I'll destroy the relationship and I don't want to. I'd wish to spend the rest of my life with her, but then again, I'd never have had sex with a man... So maybe anyone knows what to do..?
you either don't cheat on ur gf and break up with her or cheat on ur gf and break her heart for a guy that doesn't care about you. Or don't cheat and be faithful
Unless you have a very open relationship with your girlfriend, you can't follow this up without risking everything and causing a lot of hurt and damaged feelings. Fidelity is the unwritten contract you enter into in a relationship (unless both parties agree to a different arrangement).
