Confused on how to act towards a girl

Hey Sugar. So I have read several of your threads now. First you worry to much about how to act around girls. Just be yourself. Don't fake anything. If you are a flirt you're a flirt. Doesnt mean ya wanna take them home.
If you just want to be their friend be it. Do you act differently around guys? Maybe you do really need to visit the whole gay thing. If you are that nervous about how to act around a girl....maybe its because you are thinking about how cute she is. Just a thought. So are you happy with your bf? This is personal but do want to have sex with him? I saw in another thread that he "talked you out of being bi" Not sure how I feel about that. Those are you feelings and if he isnt comfortable with who you are. I mean you can be bi and still love him very much. Just means you could've met a girl and felt the same way.
So do you get nervous around guys like you do girls? I see them both the same. I find both attractive. But dont really get nervous around either.
Well duty calls. Hopefully we can get back to this.

 

Well I can pretty much relate to all of that. Except talking about kids. My husband doesnt ever talk about our girls. When I was still talking to my crush. That was one of the things we enjoyed talking about. She had way more involvement than him. Anyway...I have to wonder about her feelings towards you if you have been texting all day. Can I ask what kinds of things you two talk about? My girl and I talked about everything when we would get on a texting spree. It was great.

 

Hi Sugar, no you're not paranoid, I think you do flirt with her. You have crush on her, you said that. You live straight life for 10 years but that doesn't necessarily mean you're straight, right?
This sounds kinda familiar. I have a bf of 13 yrs, no kids though. We've been together so long and through so many things but the last years I love him more or less "only" as a best friend. Like you, I don't want or enjoy sex with him.
I was living completely straight life until I met a girl online last year. I didn't know she's lesbian at first but from the very beginning I was drawn to her and gradually developed feelings for her. I knew I can't be with her for tons of reasons so I never told her how I felt but she changed my life, even though she's not aware. She helped me realize who I am and I eventually accepted that I'm gay.
I don't say it's what will happen, I just wanted to say that the friendship with her could be tricky and confusing for you in case you're lesbian or bi leaning to women.