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My cousin

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Wolf of The Baltic, Jun 23, 2014.

  1. Wolf of The Baltic

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    So even though it does say family on the left, I haven't told my cousin. He is coming over from Sweden to hang out with us and I thought that this would be a great time to tell him. Me and Ă–scar(my cousin) have been great and love playing games together. However he can be very tell-everybody kind of people. I need help. Should I tell him or not? Also once he gets here he will stay for about a week or so.
     
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    It's your choice... but I would hint at it just to see how he reacts. Then go on from there if he has a non-homophobic reaction
     
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    Who are you worried about him telling?
    Because he's family, wouldn't everyone else know? And because he lives in Sweden, wouldn't he be telling an audience that has little to no effect on you?

    If he's your age, I'm sure you could drop and hint and see what his reaction is. You have the entire time that he's there to work on it, so don't feel rushed to do it.
     
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    Try! And good luck (*hug*)
     
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    So I'm moving in about a month and I thought when he was helping me pack up my room I would tell him then, thanks for the. The courage to convince me to tell him, I'll get back to on how it goes
     
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    How did it go?

    As a fellow Swede, I know we're quite great at acceptance (HBTQ) here and it's usually no problems. Hope it went well!
     
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    It went well he accepts me