is my best friend gay, bi, curious.. or...

ok ive posted this a few times in another category but im posting here hoping to get inpu of more than 1 person

Ok so my best friend that ive known since 6th grade claims hes 100% straight .. he talks about girls, hes dated girls, hes fucked girls, he talks about how he wants to have sex with girls or get his dick sucked by a girl. Well starting around January our best lesbian friend came over to his house, i was staying the night at his house and well she started feeling on dick dick under his underwear and he didnt care because she wasnt attracted to it but then he pulled it out and said he didnt care if i see his dick as long as i dont get any ideas.. so she kinda like stroked his dick or like 15 minutes while i watched then after that i didnt really see his dick much after but then he started showing me pics in class on his phone of him just in his briefs.. like mirror pics asking me which ones i liked the best & as time went by i began to see his dick more often everytime i went over. well other than him changing completely naked in front of me or peeing in the bathroom when were both in his bathroom etc. he pulls it out sometimes when its just me and him alone at his house and strokes it saying he feels like jacking off and stuff.. one time he kept pulling it out saying he felt like jacking off and he would lay on his bed with his eyes closed and just stroke it & he was hard. One time in class i was tickling his arm with a pencil at school and he pulled his arm away and said "Stop you kno i dont like that" so i was like okay you tickle my arm with the pencil and he said "No why should i pleasure you if you didnt pleasure me" then i was like ok.. then we didnt talk for like 10 seconds and then he looked back at me nd said "Suck me up this weekend" then hurried back and started talking to his friends.. idk if he was serious or not but he wasnt laughing about it.. then i was hanging out at his house the usual tho.. i see his dick hell flash me and shake it around and stuff and so as time went on .. other than seeing him naked or his dick i was just at his house this past weekend and it was just me and him there and his brother was in the room sleeping we were in a little fort i guess he made cause he was bored and well we were talking and he said "Let me put my dick in your ass" and i told him no because im not ready for the pain and he said "why not? youll need to experience it sometime" ad i said no again and left it at that.. but then he started jacking it off again and took it out and showed me again and all that and later that night he took it out and was shaking it around and when i realized he was doing that he put it back in his pants and laughed and he was like "i do it cause i like seeing your reaction it makes me laugh" then the next day it was just me and him and he started working out in his gym shorts hen he took them off while i watched him workout and he worked out in just his briefs and hed pull his briefs down to show the V-Line and hed flex for me and hed let me feel his abs and then he pulled his dick out in front of the mirror and talked about he wanted to get it sucked and stuff by a girl then our lesbian friend came over and it was just us 3 at the house and we got into a convo about experiencing and then our lesbian friend said if she did 1 thing to me that she wanted to do then i could grab my bestfriends dick and jiggle it and stuff for 10 secs of course i took the offer i mean what she wanted to do was nothing really nothing sexual at all.. and so he put a blanket on his face i guess he didnt wanna see me touching it and i grabbed it and stuff for 10 secs then when she left he started watching porn.. straight porn of course and asked if i wanted to watch.. i watched just because we had nothing else to do.. then when he was done watching it and put his tablet away and just pulled out his dick and was stroking it and stuff RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME ..I WAS LITERALLY RIGHT NEXT TO HIM and he didnt care ..

like yah i wanna suck him up and stuff bu he told me not to get any ideas and he says he isnt gay idk if hes in denial or if hes bi or what.. but i would like some input from you guys thanks for reading! let me kno what you guys think! btw we are both upcoming seniors!!

 

Well, he's definitely not a kinsey 0 that's for sure.

 

thanks for your response, and yes im going to give him all the time he needs.. most of the time when he pulls out his dick or does anything i usually just hang around i dont try to pursue into any sexual actions because im not sure thats what he wants or not :O and im definitely okay with him pulling out his dick.. i mean it turns me on when he does stuff like that but i think if he really wanted to experiment with me if thats what hes looking for id probably wait till he wants to make a move . if that sounds good..

---------- Post added 3rd Jul 2014 at 10:36 PM ----------

lol i have no idea what a kinsey 0 is xD

---------- Post added 3rd Jul 2014 at 10:37 PM ----------

Hey andy thanks for your reply!! i can handle a friend with benefit im actually not falling for him at all like i see him as my bestfriend only but when he does things like flash his dick at me and jack off in front of me i do kinda get urges to do things with him right then and there xD

 

Oh ohkay thanks! & im not sure if he woukd wanna do stuff like if I made a move or something idk he might hit me :0

 

I meant to mention that he also doesnt mind going through with me the dick pics or like jack off videod on my phone (They arent of me) but he has sat with me befire and looked at them all and stuff.

 

Its nice cause like I mean to me hes goodlooking and I mean im seeing his dick and stuff xD but at the same time its a killer I mean its right there and I cant do nothing :O are you suggesting I shoukd make a move when hes in that mood where he has it out and stuff ? Like how? :0

---------- Post added 5th Jul 2014 at 12:11 AM ----------

Like a lot of the times when hes pretty muc slowly jacking off or hell have his duck out saying how je wants a girk to suck him up.. I just sit there and stare cause idk what else to do :0

 

Hes always on the topic abt "experiencing" and stuff so I will definitely see what I can do next time this happens and ill keep you updated in how things go thanks ! I mean the only thing that worries me is like if I grab his dick or talk to him ant it hell flip out and stuff cause like oje time I showed him a pic of this cute guy and ut was a completely regular normal selfie but I guess the guy was in a pose that was gay and he was like "Thats so gay dont ever show me that again!" Like the littlest gau things he makes the biggest deal out of