He wants to break up but get back together in 2 years...

If you really love each other that much than 2 years will not be that long to wait, even though it seems like it now. If you do drift apart, than chances are that will probably happen anyways. Sometimes the hardest thing to do when you love someone is think about what's best for them instead of you. He has a lot to deal with right now, and seems to be mature enough to understand that a relationship is too much at this point. He sounds like a reasonable, responsible and caring person, and respecting his wishes will show him how much you do love him.
I know you may not understand this because you want to rely on how you feel. That is completely understandable. The thing is both of you are very young, and you will grow and mature, and may become different people from who you are now. The type of people you like and how you want to live your life will change over the years as you do. In two years, one or both of you may be very different and not feel the same, regardless of whether you stay together or not. The fact that he is taking on such responsibility at a young age, and from the sounds of it, accepts the responsibility will change the kind of person he is in the next two years. Nothing is for sure, and part of loving someone, and loving yourself is allowing that space to grow. If you guys are meant to be together, than in two years, it will happen.

 

(*hug*)

 

Since you guys are broken up just take some time for yourself. If I was in your situation I would just let whatever happens happen. If within the two years you do meet someone see what happens between you two. If you and J are ment to be together it will work itself out in the end.

 

You are soooo young. At 13 you shouldn't have to worry about dealing with long-distance online relationships. You should be out having fun with your friends and fooling around with people in person. I am sorry that you have to go through this because it is tough to break up, but at your age this is the best thing for you trust me. Don't waste your youth waiting for a guy, go have fun and date and mess around. You will find someone else trust me.

 

Aww I remember this feeling a lot, at thirteen the world seems very small and those online relationships you build are hard to find in your daily life because gay people dont seem as common in school.

I promise this will pass, its hard because you grow attached to talking to people especially if you lack that sort of relationship in person. I would suggest staying away from relationships right now and focus on school and your friends. You have so much time to date when your a little older. This all sounds horrible because I remember being told it too, but I hope you see how good it will be to just figure yourself out for a bit then let the rest happen naturally.

Hope you're well, x