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Feelings for a possible lesbian

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by rich96, Jul 12, 2014.

  1. rich96

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    I'm a recovering porn addict and in my pre-addiction past (around 5+ years ago) I knew a girl that I was really close with, she ended up coming to be either bi or lesbian, I cant remember. We fell out for unknown reasons and I recently became an Introvert due to the effects of porn addiction. But this morning as I checked my facebook to see if a person I knew seen my soundcloud link, I seen that sent me a friend request and we're back talking. I've been lonely this whole summer really and out of the blue she pops up and brings some shine to my life and I feel like i'll end up developing romantic feelings if we talk more and more. But I don't know what's her orientation and I'm honestly scared to ask, what should I do?
     
  2. Peacemaker

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    i you just ask her, but thats just me being direct or you could tell how you feel, the worst she could do is reject you, sorry its not more in-depth
     
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    There's no way to know her orientation for sure unless you ask.
     
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    Just ask her