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Family worries

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by whereamigoing, Jul 17, 2014.

  1. whereamigoing

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    Mom: Says shell support me no matter what even though I'm not out and all we do is fight but she actively supports her gay brother and gay marriage
    Dad: Also says hell support me (still not out!) But then proceeds to make gay jokes and call people faggots
    Stepmom: supports her bi brother so i think I'm good there
    stepdad: actively dsagrees with me on the topic of gay marriage and uses hateful words so:***: there even though he has a gay brother
    Sister: She's 8 she doesn't understand or care

    You can now see why I'm scared to come out. who should i come out to or should i at all?
     
  2. mangotree

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    Wow, lots of gay and bi people in your family already.
    Jokes and marriage equality opinions aside, it honestly sounds like they'd all be mostly accepting of you if you came out to them.
    The most homophobic people are the ones that don't know anyone who's LGBT.
     
  3. whereamigoing

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    The only problem is my stepdad. I'm too scared to tell the gun toting ex soldier southern republican because I'm really close to him and i dont want to lose that.