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Who is supposed to propose?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by the lone wolf, Aug 30, 2014.

  1. the lone wolf

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    This is all very far away as I'm not even in a relationship yet, but I'd like to know how proposing works for same sex couples.
    Planning that beforehand kind of takes away the whole emotional surprise experience, but on the other hand, if you both have a ring ready it would also be quite embarrasing... ( and expensive.. :dry: )
    So, what would be a good way to go about this? and for the people who are already married to a same sex partner, how did it happen for you?
    Thanks in advance~!
    Aaron.
     
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    The one who gets to it first because of their superior time-management skills?
    Romantic, eh?
     
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    Whoever wants to? Lol, idk...
     
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    LOL, I was just going to say "the other guy".
     
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    If there were to be any kind of rule... I would suppose the one who typically takes charge in the relationship, maybe? Although, that wouldn't work universally. I know I'd wanna do the proposing, if ever I get a flipping girlfriend, already.
     
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    Whoever wants to! Even straight women propose to men these days.
     
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    Whoever. And why would it be embarrassing if both have a ring with them? It would be amazing and romantic in my opinion.