Hey,I already got advice from a friend of mine, but I'd like to have as many opinions as I can get. Anyway, I started college last week, and something happened in my English class. The woman sitting next to me was about 40-50 years old, more than twice my age And I'm extremely attracted to her. I've never been sexually attracted to an older woman like that in my life, and I have no idea why this changed. I'd never felt anything towards older women like that, yet I was extremely and helplessly aroused just from this woman sitting next to me. Could anyone please help explain or offer advice?
Sometimes it just happens, sometimes we're just attracted to someone who's much different from what we thought we'll be attracted to. It's normal, and you don't have to feel bad about this. I'm not sure what kind of advice you're asking for, but whatever you ask - I'd just say think it through and then follow your heart.
Well where is she in her life? Perhaps get to know her, become friends. and see if ya'll have any common goals
And what should I do then, if conditions are "favorable"? I know she isn't married, or at least doesn't wear a wedding ring.
If conditions are favorable, ask her out. Invite her out to dinner, or out for coffee. The worst she can say is no, if she says yes even better.
And...I'm kinda both scared and curious about it, but... How would I go about sex? I mean, assuming like everything goes well, and she agrees to it and all.
Well. I'm not an expert in that department. but from what my friend has told me, older ladies actually know what they want in bed, and you might learn a thing or two from them.
Well, the *game* is afoot, guys, haha. We spoke a lot today, and we have a lot in common! Now I just need to step it up just a bit.
