I can't bear anything anymore. I can't handle it and want to break into tears when my family keeps saying you're a girl, female, or when they see tomboys on t.v, they say: your siblings. My life is totally wrecked. I Can't take it anymore. I can't dress up the things I want because of them, I can't move or sit the way I like because of them, I can't talk the way I should, because of them. They always say I'm making them mad and depressed and I'm a bag of ice. But they don't understand how much their words wreck me. Yesterday, I was going somewhere and was wearing half sleeved shirt, and mum said : shave your arms, they look like man's arms. I feel that my life is surreal. I always wish that I would wake up with a different life and family.. They always threaten me for being who I am.
Please, you need a hug. (*hug*) That being said, it is very rude of them to say these things. Are you still living with your parents? Are there any options for you to move out?
I assume you're not financially independent, so I suggest that you move out when you can if the situation won't change.