Hey guys I've been talking to this guy and we've hung out a few times. However every time we hang out and he goes to kiss me, his breath is horrible but I'm too nice to break it to him. I can't tell him. He also does some strange things, like he'll stare into my eyes but TOO much, and it gets creepy. And also he moans while making out, or if I touch his you know what a little bit he moans. It is a bit odd to me, and all of these things are making me question whether I should even bother with him, I take hygiene seriously and the moaning is a bit much. What would you do / think? (I haven't fully fallen for him yet)
It might be tough, but I think you should tell him up front about his breath, maybe getting him some breath mints to be more "constructive". Has he been with other guys before?
Remember that just because you're gay, it doesn't mean that you have to love with the first gay guy you meet. Try and tell if you actually like him, or if you just really want to fall in love (not that that's a bad thing). You can dump him if it's not working out. Don't feel like you have to love him just cause he's gay.
Yeah um no moaning. But the bad breath thing is more of a whatever...I don't exactly have nice breath either. Just tell him to chew some gum or something. Dam you make out with guys at 17? XD That...is gay lol. There's a lot of different people out there that might not be quite as...interesting.
See, for me moaning is great.. It shows that the person is enjoying themselves. And no, I am not talking about porn style moaning either.... <shrug> YMMV
.. not sure what your "make out with guys at 17" comment was about... I see no issue with that! and yeah I've moved on. this moaning was very much the porn style moaning, and all we were doing was making out. it was uncomfortable.
Bad breath, give him a mint or gum first. Moaning - well I would ask if he's ok, every time he starts it. If he asks why you ask, then just tell him its distracting.
