I've been talking with a guy for 4 weeks. We haven't met in person due to school. I'm really interested in meeting him and he said he feels the same way as well. However, I have a feeling that he doesn't. He told me that he's talking to his ex but have yet to see his ex. He trying to see how it goes with the ex before letting me know if he would go back or move on. And he hopes that he and I could still be friends if he decided to go back with his ex. I feel like this is a red flag and I should stop wasting my time. On the other hand, I really like talking to him and would like to meet him. I don't think I could be his friends since I might develop a crush after meeting him. Another red flag is that he blocks from the dating app, on which we met. Any advice?
Umm , that is a little unnerving. If i was you, i wouldn't wait for him because he wants to see about his ex, which means he isn't over him and he would be "settling" for you. At least, thats what is seems like to me
As brutal as it sounds, avoid him. If he had any feelings for you at all he wouldn't even be talking to you about his ex! As for blocking you on social networking, it's obviously so you can't see what he's up to. You can do better than this, honestly. Nobody should have to settle with someone who isn't totally dedicated to them :eusa_naug Hope this helps (*hug*)
These guys are right. If he had any real intentions of being your friend (or even closer than that) he would have shown it by now. Maybe it's time to find a new friend. Sorry this is going on. Your Friend, B
Zygnomic is right. It doesn't really sound that great. Obviously it's impossible for us to judge, and you know him better... but I'd be cautious there.
Exactly this. If he's waiting to see how his ex feels, he's not over him. He's not worth your time - don't dedicate your time to anyone who prioritises someone else!!
I agree with the others, if he is waiting on his ex, then he isn't over him and even if the ex rejected him, you would be his rebound and I don't think you should have to settle for being his second choice and you would always be worrying if he was thinking of his ex and if he would rather be with him.
