I have strong feelings for my best friend, Need Help!

I just went threw this so I want to share with you . I lost my best friend because I waited to long to say something and come to find out he knew almost the whole time I had feelings for him and he had them for me too . I am not saying to tell him I am saying be careful how you deal with him ,maybe you can talk to him and find out how he feels about bisexuals and gay people if he is positive maybe come out to him and slowly move forward . Good luck I wish you the best of luck.

 

Well that is awesome that he acepts you for the way you are ! I am not to sure how to deal with the problem with out saying he buddy I need to tell you something,we have been friends for ____ and I feel I can tell you this .I have feelings for you .

I am not sure that is the best idea tho .I wish I could help you better good luck friend !

 

You need to try and find someone that at least has the chance at reciprocating your feelings. The only way to get over someone is a combination of time, distance and distraction. You need to throttle back on the "talk all the time" (slowly, gradually) and/or try and get out there and meet new people to re-focus your love efforts to someone who can return the feelings.

 

I would agree with ryan, its hard to give something up if you're doing it, right? So maybe hold back a bit, don't stop being his friend but just back off enough where you can refocus your affection elsewhere. I know it maybe hard, but if its something you really want to do, you can do it.